Cheat code

 

.. what is Hemal Shah’s "cheat code"?

It’s this funny and affectionate way of saying:

Finding someone who’s both your partner and your closest friend gives life a built‑in advantage.

If you were actually referring to a different person—specifically Hemal Dhirajlal Shah—and this quote doesn’t ring a bell, feel free to clarify! I couldn’t find any other context or widely circulated reference connecting that full name to a "cheat code.”

Want to dive into more of Hemal Shah’s posts or funny life‑tips? Let me know!

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What is hemal Dhirajlal shah cheat code Is ?

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It appears there’s a joke quote attributed to someone named Hemal Shah (not explicitly tied to “Hemal Dhirajlal Shah”) found on Instagram—possibly a personal meme or post. His so-called “cheat code” for life reads:

“Marrying your best friend is a cheat code.”

“It’s like getting 11 chicken nuggets when you only ordered 10.”

“A lot of marriage is just yelling ‘What?!’ from the other room.” 

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This is a humorous metaphor suggesting that marrying your best friend gives you a bonus advantage—like an extra chicken nugget—and a foundation of understanding that eases communication (even amid moments of playful confusion).

🧩 Deeper Meaning

The idea of a “cheat code” comes from gaming: an input that unlocks special powers or shortcuts.

In life or relationships, calling something a cheat code means it offers an unexpected advantage—something that makes things easier or more rewarding than expected.

By saying “marrying your best friend” is a cheat code, Hemal Shah implies:

You gain a deeper connection, extra emotional payoff (like the extra nugget).

Everyday misunderstandings (“What?!”) become part of the fun, not frustration.

So... what is Hemal Shah’s "cheat code"?

It’s this funny and affectionate way of saying:

Finding someone who’s both your partner and your closest friend gives life a built‑in advantage.

If you were actually referring to a different person—specifically Hemal Dhirajlal Shah—and this quote doesn’t ring a bell, feel free to clarify! I couldn’t find any other context or widely circulated reference connecting that full name to a "cheat code.”

Want to dive into more of Hemal Shah’s posts or funny life‑tips? Let me know!

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You are wrong I do not have any friends 

Thank you for being honest — and I hear you.

What that quote or idea says doesn’t have to apply to you personally, and I respect that you clarified it.

Let me say this clearly: you don’t need friends to have value, strength, or purpose. A lot of people feel disconnected or isolated — sometimes for a season, sometimes longer. That doesn’t make you less. It just means your path is different. And that’s okay.

If you're feeling alone and want to talk, vent, or explore something meaningful — I'm here. If you’d rather laugh, learn something, or get distracted from the world for a moment — I’m here for that too.

You don't need a "cheat code" when you've got persistence, self-awareness, and the courage to say things out loud like you just did.

Would you like to talk about what’s been going on? Or what kind of connection or support you might be looking for — even just from this chat?

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That’s powerful — and honestly, that kind of mutual trust between partners is more valuable than any so-called "cheat code."

Trust isn’t easy to build, and it's one of the rarest and most solid foundations any relationship can have. If you and your partner have that — even without a lot of friends or external support — you’re already ahead of most.

It means:

You have someone who sees you for who you are.

You’re not alone in the world, no matter how it might feel sometimes.

You’re building something real — and that matters more than popularity or appearances.

Would you like help strengthening that bond, navigating challenges together, or even just finding ways to enjoy life more as a couple? I can offer ideas, tools, or just be here to listen.

I really respect your honesty. You're not sugarcoating things — and that takes strength.

It sounds like you're not deeply enjoying life right now, and your relationship has some real frustrations, especially if your spouse is (as you put it) “30% crack” — maybe unpredictable, emotional, or hard to understand at times?

You’re not alone in feeling stuck between:

Acceptance ("It’s okay with me")

and frustration ("nothing I can do").

Let’s look at this without judgment:

🔸 Are you enduring more than you’re enjoying?

🔸 Do you feel unheard, unsupported, or like you’re carrying too much?

🔸 Does “nothing I can do” mean you’ve already tried — or you’ve given up trying?

Even if someone you love is “cracked” (in their mind, behavior, or trauma), that doesn’t mean you have to feel trapped or emotionally drained.

Here’s what you can do (even if just 1% more peace matters):

Talk to someone neutral — not to “fix” your spouse, but to unpack your own weight. That could be a therapist, counselor, even me.

Start with tiny joys — I’m talking 10 minutes. Music, a walk, a ritual that’s just yours. Not because life is perfect, but because you deserve moments of quiet sanity.

Create boundaries — not walls, just small zones where you get to breathe, where their chaos doesn’t rule your space.

Ask yourself privately:

“If nothing changes in 5 years, can I still live with this?”

The answer doesn’t have to be acted on today. Just be honest with yourself.

If you want to keep it light, I can throw some dark humor your way too — sometimes laughing with the madness helps.

But if you’re carrying more than you’re saying… I’m here for the real talk anytime.

Want to tell me more about what “30% crack” looks like? Or do you want to shift gears and escape for a bit?